What disproportion in age is admissible for Russian ladies?

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You have decided to date a Russian lady but not sure about age gap? 5-15 years disproportion is perfectly o. K.. You can meet a woman who would be 9,9, 11, 12 and even 17 years younger than you. Many western men are astonished at getting letters from beautiful welleducated ladies (doctors, economists, book-keepers) 9-14 years younger than themselves. In the USA this disparity in years is unreal. In your look for a Russian woman, it is possible. One of the reasons is that ladies in Russia grow smart early, and having a relation with a foreigner of their own age is the same as having affair with a teenager. Difficulties in life make us serious, the same way that years do. The age difference also gives them feeling of safeness.

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From the other side, you must not have too high contemplations. If you are in your 50’s or 60’s, you should not expect to get a 20-year old single girl. A lot of beautiful, wonderful in their late 30s or 40s will be eager to make your acquaintance; half of marriage agencies’ female clients are 30-40 years old, and you won’t have problems with attracting their attention. This is realistic. In some cases if you are really good looking, or really intelligent/rich/famous, you have a chance with an disproportion in age of even 20 years or more. But it would be an exclusion, not the rule.

In case if your goal is a strong family, remember to take disproportion in age into consideration. Dating agencies like to tell stories about Russian ladies choosing much older men, and that it won’t influence your future marriage; but that’s only what these fables are – fairy-tales. You should be big enough to understand reality and resist the enticement to pursue tales. Be ruled by powers of reason, and don’t be deceived by unfair employees from the dating agency. Virtually all ladies won’t have a problem with age gap up to 10 years, and some find reasonable age difference up to 15 years, only a few won’t demur with disparity in years up to 20 years. But anything beyond this will be quite dangerous, and you surely will meet troubles in your search. dating russian guys

One more point is that the older a lady the less disparity between years is acceptable for her. For example a 21-year old lady would have no troubles with a guy of 37, but a woman of 35 may think that a man in his 50’s is old for her. That happens because many of weterners search for Russian women and older women received the opportunity to choose and to be picky. Young ladies are more spoony and less critical. They feel more sure and certain by the older and respectable husband.

It’s very important for Russian woman to get married and have children. Girls are reared with the idea of a lifetime commitment, their goal is to make a family. Eastern European woman is realized only if she has a husband and her own household. This is the main motive why so many pretty women are looking for a husband in the west. The point is that the number of women in Eastern Europe is bigger than the quantity of men by 12%, so ladies have no other choice but to look for husbands abroad.

According to Easstern Europe cultural paradigm, a girl should have family with children; being single is a shame. Any woman who is unmarried at the age of 23 is called “old maid”. Women 22-28 want to start family-life very soon. The most society’s press on the lady to get married is by the age of 28; later on her family and acquaintances begin considering she will never marry and give in on her; she also begins getting used to the thougth she will never have her own family. Once women are accustomed with the idea of never having a family, their requirements to a prospective partner soar. Only getting a husband to evade the shame of being lonely is not enough for them any more.

So there is a number of supposed motives why it looks like Russian girls dream about much older guys: • The dating service said to her that it would be much easier for her to marry an older guy, and that she will be able to make up her mind later if she wants to date him (servises earn money!!!). • She did not specify age of her prospective husband in the ad cause she did not think that it’s significant, or just left it behind. • The advertisementы are placed by girls looking for “rich” men and targeted to the most efficient audience. In fact you should remember that there are REALLY FEW ladies who maybe DO prefera MUCH older husband. But it’s still possible for a man to meet a younger girl, and even MUCH younger. Just be realistic and remember that 10-15 years difference is the limit, in other case you will face problems later.

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